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One of my biggest pet peeves is people that complain about something all the time but don’t do anything about it. Or, they keep doing what they have been doing, but can’t figure out why it’s not working.

Albert Einstein once said

“The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.

If the situation is something you feel you can’t change, or it has to do with another person who won’t change, then you have three options:

1. Don’t do anything and continue to be unhappy about it. This is the easiest option…but it is the hardest for everyone around you if you constantly complain to them!
2. Accept the situation for what it is and move on. You aren’t going to get what you want (in your mind), so accept it and just live with it.
3. Accept the situation but change your attitude toward it. Change the way you look at it, make it a better situation in your mind, be grateful for any good coming your way from it, even if it is just a little thing. This is the best solution in my opinion…you’d be surprised what can happen if you just change your attitude – you may even get the change you thought was impossible!
   

As Wayne Dyer says,

“Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change”.